tl;dr;
See a shrink, preferably a female one. Seriously, I shit you not.
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tl;dr;
See a shrink, preferably a female one. Seriously, I shit you not.
I'd rather work this out without a professional, thanks.
Exam you need to take a chance dude, Contrary to popular belief i was actually a very very shy person when i was younger, but i made a point of myself to break through it. so i just randomly talked to people and carried on being silly :P.
Make a conscious decision to say or do things at a moments whim or you'll continue to struggle around people. Force your way through it and just joke around.
the other thing that always gets the ball rolling is alcohol.
A party with a few mates, a fire place and some good tunes does wonders. Your already comfortable with these people, music lightens the mood, the fireplace is a place to gather around talking and joking and the alcohol counter-acts your natural inhibiter's that stop you from talking and mucking around with a fear of repercussion for making a mistake.
your more relaxed and the words will just come to you.
Alcohol has some seriously awesome mental property's that alot of people overlook and cast doubt apon, but if you can set up a small fire and have a little to drink (i'm not talking stumbling, slurring and spewing) you'll break through some of your personal barriers.
Doctor Zilla proscribes booze and a good time.
must take subscription a minimum of once ever 2 weeks for the next 6 months.
not to be taken in conjunction with any other drugs of harmful substances.
not to be taken while alone.
Welcome to the club ExAM...:haw:
In all seriousness, I can't give much helpful advice. I am in the exact same situation as you are.