Bullying

**Bodzilla** · May 25th, 2012 11:12 AM

Just wondering who's had it, what your experience was, and what you did if anything to stop it, why you got it ect.

**TeeKup** · May 25th, 2012 11:25 AM

Me obviously. But it never had any real impact.

**DarkHalo003** · May 25th, 2012 12:28 PM

I was bullied all throughout Middle School and portions of High School. I was a very passive kid in Middle School and I really had no desire to fight them, not to mention when I did I either held back tremendously or I held it in because causing fistfights at private school will get you expelled. Really it was mental abuse for two years, followed by my being an average punk kid of my time trying to fit into a social molding. Then I had some realization and revelations, so I decided in High School about Sophomore year that I would try being my own person. That was short lived. Bullying for me consisted of constant mental abuse and become belittled because people throughout my life have just had a grand time making fun of me (probably because I'm so goofy, clumsy, and I look younger than I am). And no, having an older brother doesn't help this at all. As a result, I have had a low self-confidence minus some impulsive moments. And by "Bullying" I'm talking about the purely mentally abusive bullshit that people in general do inconsiderately and out of self-interest. It's really a double-edged sword in my life: I can hardly stand people, have only a few good friends (which is by no means a bad thing), can't seem to find a girl I can stand that can stand me, but at the same time I get see just how shitty my society really is and how I'm really not crap. There you have it.

Oh and I have a tremendous distrust and initial disliking of other guys. Yay for mental scarring and abuse for 8 years.

**=sw=warlord** · May 25th, 2012 12:58 PM

I had it for some time through school.
Stopped after I slammed a guy by his backpack into a solid concrete wall knocking them out and then dragging 3 teachers across the ground as they tried stopping me walking out of school.
Got to college and some guy was just being a complete idiot on a level I won't even go into, suffice to say I coerced to stop after pinning them to a wall and pressing harder on their chest each time they breathed out.
Very effective.

**TVTyrant** · May 25th, 2012 01:18 PM

Had some problems with it when I was younger due to my weight

Then when I started wrestling/play football I realized it was a weapon, and never let people mess with me anymore. I hate seeing people bully people, especially when I see big kids get picked on by smaller ones all for the reason that they're timid or just plain don't like violence

I have a hard time identifying when its happening though since I was 13 when it stopped happening to me. Unless someone is being really direct about it, I have a hard time noticing the difference between teasing and bullying.

**Futzy** · May 25th, 2012 01:36 PM

I FUCKING HATE BKS

**Hotrod** · May 25th, 2012 01:53 PM

I was bullied for a portion of elementary school and at the beginning of high school by some bunch of idiots. I'm not going to go into details, but my way of coping with it was just to ignore them. However, once I saw that they didn't stop, I grabbed a guy by the colar, smashed him against a locker and less-than-nicely but calmly told him that it was time for him to stop. I guess that intimidated him since nobody ever bothered me after that.

**Higuy** · May 25th, 2012 01:57 PM

I was bullied in elemtary school but that was about it, eventually I just started ignoring them and talking to other kids and stuff. I havent had many other incidents of bullying since early elemantary that I can recall or if there was they were insignificant.