Bullying

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Originally Posted by DarkHalo003

Those bastards are like mafia.

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Yeah they are

With their whoppers, and their chicken fries, and their rock em sock em robots

I need to go to BK now I'll be back

I've been bullied throughout all my schooling by students and teachers alike, due to my size (tvtyrant and llama you know what I'm talking about).. while living in an abusive home.
It drove me a little insane, and needless to say that eventually manifested itself in a way that ensured no one would even look at me wrong. Made a teacher cry, got suspended for a week, but was totally worth it.
You know that saying "It's always the quiet ones?" Yeah.

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Originally Posted by Bodzilla

Just wondering who's had it, what your experience was, and what you did if anything to stop it, why you got it ect.

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My situation is odd. I got e-harassed quite a bit for putting up an internet tough guy act, and after being humiliated in front of a shit ton of people, parents found out a whole bunch of shit about me I'd prefer they hadn't, so I pretty much moved completely across the united states and shut the fuck up and barred myself off from the rest of the world for literally years and just thought about things

today I'm far more content with my life and have no real problems socializing, have a pretty decent, well-paying job, and am not really in debt or anything. though I'd prefer to keep people at arm's length

My entire flipping life, mainly because the people in this shoddy excuse for a country are intolerent, racist fucks with no grey matter to speak of.
It still happens today, but it mostly stopped after I hit back and broke 2 of the high school tough guy's ribs.

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Originally Posted by TeeKup

Me obviously. But it never had any real impact.

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I love you.

First three years of highschool got bullied for being "gay" cause I fell in love with some cunts girlfriend. Made a rumour im gay and sent him a lover letter told the whole school lawl tuff guy. Ended up being the most loved guy in the school with more friends than any cock sucker. Ha, bow at my feet bitches.

:) <3

I've seen what i was looking for, the guys that stood up for themselves and annihilated their bullys are the guys who had it stopped.

I was pretty short and young in my school year, due to being pretty smart i started school much earlier then alot of people, so i got the usual shit that goes with that. Eventually i did what i've seen to be the only thing that ever worked and that is to fucking deck the cowards.

You know whats scarier then someone picking on you? Someone that no matter what you do to put them down, keeps relentlessly getting up and coming at you.
once they realized that after i'd snap i wouldn't stop until i'd done everything in my m power to hurt them they all back down pretty fucking quick.

Everything i've seen so far could be handled like this, apart from mookz, and you'd have to know his backstory to understand, somethign i'm not prepared to do.

i love me some mookz <33

Unless you come across those ones who want you to get fired up and come at them and that only fuels them ever more D: hahaha

I was bullied a little in early primary (mostly just namecalling and the occasional shove). I went to a pretty rough school for a while, but most of the bullies actually got along okay with me when their friends weren't around because I helped them with their work. I switched schools (end of my street vs. other side of town) eventually, and didn't have any problems there at all.

The moment I moved to Australia and went to school it was fucked. Actually, perhaps not right away; the first year or so wasn't bad. The second was tolerable. The third was fucking awful, this one kid made it his life goal to make me miserable and knew that (at the time) I had a deathly fear of germs, so he would spit into his hand then chase me around flailing his hands about. He would constantly give me shit and was just generally a little cunt. The school did absolutely nothing (with the exception of my class teacher and art teacher, who were both fairly cool dudes) and so I eventually went back to the school I was at before (you have to keep in mind I've done a lot of moving and even more school-hopping). Apparently my friends beat the everloving shit out of him after I left and made his life such a living hell he had to switch schools shortly afterwards and is now a born-again Christian (came across him on "people you might know" on FB).

Had a little trouble in years 5 and 6, actually mostly with my friends being pricks to impress their friends, but by the end of primary school everyone got along pretty well with me. Not so at high school, had tons of trouble in year 7 (physical to an extent, but mostly being excluded and just irritated). Bit more in year 8, a little in year 9. By year 10 I got along with everyone in my year, most of the people who had bullied me in years 7 and 8 were now friendly to me if not actual friends, and the remaining trouble I had was a gang of kids two years below me who would constantly antagonise anyone, but mostly me. My group was basically looking for an excuse to beat them down, so they generally only had a go at me when my friends were distracted or not around. I pretty much ignored them, the kid I figured for the leader of their group was such a pathetic sack that even I could intimidate him (I threw a few really half-assed punches at his shoulder once because he was being annoying and none of his mates were around, and he avoided me without them ever since). Our whole year got even with those shitheads just before we all graduated. They'd occasionally have a go over the net, but other than the occasional FB friend request I haven't heard from them since then. Shit, I'd probably be tempted to add them just to see what they're doing with themselves, but I have my contact details up on there and I can't be bothered to change my privacy settings.

So yeah, I generally don't stay at odds with people for long. Most of my closest friends used to hate me, and vice versa. Dunno if that's unusual or what, but I won't complain.

e/ for context, since many of you newer guys probably don't know me beyond my shitposting, I am a really gangly, clumsy guy who has never really been in a proper fight, who absolutely hates violence, and generally tries to avoid conflict. If you put me in front of someone I will gladly rip apart online, I would probably just shoot them funny looks and try to keep my distance. As a result, I was a pretty easy target, but although it did get really, really bad at times it's done a lot to help me. I'm a lot more withdrawn now than I was before I moved to Australia, but nowhere near as badly as when I was getting the worst of the bullying. I'm not really afraid to speak my mind and I'm more inclined to stand my ground now.

if anything, i'd almost be inclined to tank the people who bullied me, because i took all th eshit they were giving me, and made yself stronger with it, and i REALLY like the end-result that came out of it.

if i could re-do my school+nullied period, i wouldn't change a thing, knowing what i'd become.

Here in Canada we're all really friendly and no one really bullied anyone. Haha just kidding.

No but really, I got pretty lucky I guess, the group of people in my grade from middle school was really nice and friendly for the most part, and those people ended up sticking around all throughout the rest of middle school, and high school.